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Being tall: the stuff nobody tells you

Ceiling fans, low doorways, group photos and the question you’ve heard a thousand times. The small things, and how to live with them.

Nobody hands you a manual for being tall. You figure it out one doorframe at a time. These are the small realities that come with the territory, most of them good-humored and all of them familiar if you’ve spent your life a head above the room.

You learn every low thing in a room

Ceiling fans, pendant lights over a kitchen island, the beam in a friend’s basement, the sign hanging in a coffee shop. Tall people scan a room for things at head height before they walk in. Ceiling fan blades only have to be 7 feet off the floor (fan installation manual), and basement beams can come down to 6 ft 4 in under the building code (IRC R305), so the habit is earned.

The fix: in your own home, replace hanging fixtures over walkways with flush or recessed lights. More in The home built for tall people.

Doorways are a gamble

A standard US interior door is 80 inches tall (Wayfair). Old houses, cabins, boats and European buildings are often lower. You learn to duck without thinking, and you still catch one every few months.

Photos always go the same way

You go in the back row. Or you bend your knees and lean in so everyone fits. Or you take the photo yourself, which is why you’re in fewer of them. A simple tip when you’re the one with the camera: crouch so the lens is at their eye level, not yours. Photos taken at eye level look more natural for everyone.

Travel is a planning exercise

Seat maps, bed lengths and rental car models stop being details and start being decisions. The good news is that they’re predictable once you know what to look for. See Which airline seats actually fit, Hotel beds you won’t hang off and The tall driver’s car guide.

You’re everyone’s top shelf

Grocery stores, kitchens, overhead bins, the box on top of the closet. Being asked to reach things is one of the nicer parts of being tall. It’s an easy way to help.

The questions

“How tall are you?” “Do you play basketball?” “How’s the weather up there?” Everyone has their own answer by now. The best ones are short and friendly. The person asking usually means it kindly, even if you’ve heard it ten thousand times.

Things just fit worse

Sleeves, inseams, desks, showers, bikes, beds. It’s not one big problem but many small ones, every day. That’s the whole reason for MadeTall: to find what actually fits, say where the numbers come from, and make the things nobody else does.

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